Being a GF/BF!

These days, having nothing to do, i just browse thru net reading my friends' blogs and searching for some new interesting blogs so that i can pass time.. have been doing that since a time now.. Some blogs i find interesting , some funny and some 'educative'.. but of all , why i chose to write on this topic is because this is the most famous topic of all. atleast every 8 out of 10 blogs i happen to visit have a post related to this. If it were a guy, on his girl friend or if a girl on her boyfriend or some thing or the other related to this.. hmm. quite interesting though, some things i dont agree with.. whenever there is this discussion of a girl friend or boy friend, i think why make a distinction with friends as to 'boy' or a 'girl' . why attach a special meaning to the very relationship if it is just friendship? i dont know if it is a fancy among guys and girls these days to have that one special 'girl friend' (here upon referred to as GF) or a 'boy friend' (BF). Once in a while i used to listen to discussions related to this whenever i happened to be in a group. Some even asking me if i had a BF. Even though i thought many a time asking what it means to call a friend who happens to be a boy, a BF?! But i kept quiet saying no! (just coz i didn't want them to think of me a dumb :p ) .. But then, now that i happen to read so much on this stuff, i thought why not i put my thoughts on my blog... so here they are..

No doubt most of the relationships are made materialistic in today's world. Be it our own celebrations such as Raksha Bandhan or other celebrations which reserve a day for everyone, father, mother , friend , valentine, and who not? once i happen to hear a guy commenting on girls and him gifting something to a girl. so cheap the comment was, i thought why should after all guys want the girls to fall for them just by giving something and then comment on them? and why should any girl go after that? more than that, is it necessary in any relationship to exchange gifts to show how 'sincere' you are? i dont think so. atleast when you are a student and that you are depending on your parents' money for everything. Moreover, a gift given, be it to a brother, sister or anyone, it is to be token of love and care, but not a reason just to impress.

And on how serious these kind of BF / GF relationships would be, i am at my wits end! how can one be committed at an age of 17 or 18? life has just begun then. It's not a great thing to start a relationship but also matters is how is it going to end? Of course, i'm not totally against this. It is one's own decision. But what i am interested in is how successful these things are? how many of them would make a model couple who would inspire the next generation?

Keeping aside my views on this matter, one thing i want to say is, reading about such things on the blogs really feels interesting and i enjoy that .. :) as always, anything said, gives food for my thought.. And somethings , are really fanciful as in a story or a movie, leave me wondering what can be true and what not!